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How we're handling our surprise pregnancy

We were in what many people would consider a "dream" situation for a first child. My husband and I had been married for over two years, we own the place where we live and we both have reasonably stable jobs. Despite all of this, I was devastated to find myself pregnant. I felt totally unprepared for this major life change — like I had been cheated out of the second half of my twenties, like I hadn't gotten enough time alone with my husband. I was numb for about 36 hours after we found out.