My husband and I have recently found that that after a mere six months of marriage I'm pregnant. We're happy but surprised: we were told by my doctor that conceiving would be more difficult since I have Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS). I've recently decided to explore the path of Wicca, but since I'm new to Wicca and pregnancy I'm lost.
This is Offbeat Families's archive of Questions: Pregnancy & Fertility posts.
Now that we know my partner is infertile, for the first time I realize that there's a good chance that I'll never get pregnant, that we'll never make a child together. When we thought the problem was me he would always know the right thing to say or do to make me feel better, but now that the situation is reversed I don't know what to say to him, "I love you" doesn't really seem like enough.
I recently found out that I am pregnant. I had a very successful first pregnancy which resulted in a gorgeous daughter, and a second pregnancy, which I found out was not viable at six weeks. I am dying to tell everyone about this third pregnancy, but I also don't want to be embarrassed if it turns out to be another chemical pregnancy, and have to explain myself… again.
I'm TERRIFIED of getting pregnant. Like, it is literally the worst fear I have of everything I could encounter in the world. There's going to be this parasitic THING inside my body, screwing everything up: squishing my organs, messing with my hormones, and causing me pain, sickness, and constant discomfort.
Whilst I understand that this curiousity is normal, and that the doctors are doing their best to look after Geekling, I've started to feel very… well… not "me." You know, the girl who likes to bake far too many cakes, who loves to geek out on the sofa with a few episodes of Doctor Who, the teacher who loves to get down on the floor with kids and go on school trips, the geocacher, the London girl living in the German countryside who suffers from wanderlust… where did she go? Is she gone for good? Am I just a "vessel" now?
I am 14 weeks pregnant with my first child. So far, everything looks good, and I am considered to be low-risk. My question is about how to say no to my OB. For various reasons, a midwife was not a good option for us. We chose an OB who has a great reputation for low-intervention deliveries and for respecting mothers' wishes. I don't agree with the over-medicalization of pregnancy, so I thought we were on the same page.
I am a female mechanic, and I'm pregnant. Although my doctor has told me my body will let me know when I need to cut back on the heavy lifting, I'd like a better idea of when to expect that.